What it is behind the comments of the people who say only a few words to me and have it be about my appearance? A nice teacher at one of my schools said good morning to me then told me that yesterday i had a red cheeks at the dinner. That was it. (Its could of been the boiling pot of seafood three inches from my face or the one shot of home brew.) Another teacher said hi, then asked me if i had a common cold. Actually, thats exactly was he asked. “You have common cold?” I said yes because i really do. But that’s just what it is, a common cold. Then he said your face, “not good”, and made a sick looking face.  I joked with him and said thanks i feel ok, just a little tired. Another teacher said, “hi, nice shirt.” Is it an extraordinary keen sense of appearance? Lack of vocabulary to comment on something else? I just try to understand.